Have you ever had this happen to YOU?
If you answered “YES!” to any of these questions, then I have some important news for you…
You’re NOT alone. In fact, that list of questions came from my own personal experience and from learning about this area of my life for myself.
The Bottom Line Is This…
NOT having friends and feeling uncomfortable in social environments sucks!
It makes you feel out-of-place, left out and lonely.
It leaves you feeling like you have no power in your life.
It takes over your thoughts where you can’t focus on your job or other areas of your life. It overpowers everything else…
On the other hand…
KNOWING how to fit in, make friends effortlessly and handle bullies feels AMAZING.
It feels good going into a social setting, walk right up to the people who invited you and start a conversation where everyone likes you.
It feels good knowing how to be the guy who gets invited everywhere, where people have to PERSUADE you to lose sleep and come hang out with them.
It just feels good knowing how to make friends.
Most Shy Guys Never Figure Out What It Takes To Become Socially Savvy. They Try The Same Things Over And Over Again…And Fail
In a moment I'm going to give you a technique so you can overcome that.
But before I do that...
Who am I? And what do I have anything to do with anxiety, shyness and social issues? Let me tell you a short story about who I am and my life when I was shy, introverted and the guy who was always left out.
When I was growing up my father kept a tight leash around me to keep any outsiders from influencing me.
What that means is I wasn’t allowed to have friends because they’re “ALL BAD INFLUENCE”
I went to school, came home, got math tutored and next day went back to school.
"I Had No Friends"
My mother picked out my clothes and made sure it DIDN’T fit in with the mainstream crowd…because if it did in her words I’d become ‘corrupt’.
Her idea of style is what people wore back in her days.
When I argued …I was guilt tripped and she literally said:
“I’m Using My Hard Earned Money To Buy You This, You Should Appreciate It.”
As you have guessed we were also very poor.
"I Had Serious Lack Of Confidence"
I managed one or two friends and mostly talked to them over the internet.
In Fact! People hated me in school because I was "odd" and "different".
I hated them for labeling me that…But deep inside I wanted to be accepted.
Fast Forward After College...
I was still much of the same person.
I told myself I’ll build a career and hold out on the fun that everyone else is having…so I can reap the benefits later.
"I Knew That's Just A Lame Excuse I Made For Myself"
Everyone else was doing fine.
In fact some of them even had better careers…
It-drove-me-insane and I didn’t know what to do to make my social life better, how do I escape the wall of loneliness?
And then something changed
I met this girl…
She was HOT.
She was the type who had all the attention, guys chasing her, always out…
Me I basically had no friends, no weekend life, none of that stuff.
We went on a date and for the most part it went pretty well.
We sat down and I thought about when I’d see her next and suggested “Hey next time we can go to Symposium Café ”
She looked at me square in the eye and said “There won’t be a next time.”
I went home and thought back on my life. From the people I knew, to the routines that I was living to where I’d be ten years from now.
I was sad, pissed-off, and angry
That was the tipping point for me…
This Is Not Where I Wana Be In My Life
I decided I’d do ANYTHING to get out.
How much lower can I go than this? I lost my inhibition, thought of nothing else. Pretty much bootstrapped and tried making friends, getting to know more people, I tried getting invited to events, I tried standing up to bullies.
No matter how hard I tried I FAILED over and over again.
I just went home at night, recuperated, and went on about it next day.
By Chance I Came Across...
Sometime after I came across a guy nicknamed Em. I’ve never ran into anyone with an air of POWER, CONFIDENCE and SOCIAL PERSONALITY that he had.
He had women CHASING him all over the place and people from years ago still calling him back...he wasn't that good looking or have lots of money or anything special.
And I have a feeling he somehow knew I had trouble fitting in.
The gist of it is he invited me to hang out with his group and we became good friends and he helped me with some of my social challenges.
It started to make sense for me.
Over time I found several other guys like Em who I consider some of the BEST IN THE WORLD, (It was NOT easy with these guys and it took YEARS finding them) and hung out with them.
I Started To See What I Was Doing Wrong All My Life
I saw what I was doing wrong.
What others really thought of introverted men.
I was getting more and more comfortable in social environments.
The Discovery That Changed My Life
And I came to a realization…
“It doesn’t matter how hard you try…you can’t learn how to become socially savvy if you’re on the receiving end of social disapproval.”
Unless you’re INVITED in by those groups you’re never going to figure out how to be successful like them…the puzzle pieces are never going to fit together.
There are key things you would naturally start doing once accepted by these "cool" groups that sets you apart from the rest.
I retraced my steps of how I was before, and how I am now.
Found what I was doing DIFFERENT started doing JUST THAT.
Completely eliminating the things I did before.
What happened next blew me away. People IMMEDIATELY started responding to me how they would with Em and those other guys.
I didn’t believe what was happening.
They told me I had a certain “Power and Authority” about me.
I consciously knew what I was doing right this time…so I applied it with completely different groups again and again.
And that’s when I started getting consistent results.
Seeing the TREMENDOUS leap from being the guy just part of the group to the guy who suddenly became popular I wanted to see if I can teach others to do the same.
How It Worked For Others
I decided to take one or two techniques and teach it to others.
I wanted to see if it would do anything for them.
And it did! They were getting the same results I was.
NONE of these guys had movie star good looks, big bank account or fame.
In fact, some were in their 40's, some were overweight, some were balding, and some were barely out of school!
And almost ALL of them believed it was impossible for them to get the kind of success I talked about.
But after walking them through my discovery, and showing them how to do it, their concept of what was possible was SHATTERED!
These Guys Couldn't Be Any Different From Each Other...
When I decided to test if my discovery worked on others, I wanted a group of guys from different walks of life, just to PROVE to the disbelievers you don't need anything special to break out of shyness and social anxiety.
Mitchel - The Middle Aged Workaholic Project Manager
He was already starting to get grey hair and showing signs of aging.
Mitchel was tired of the life he was living, he felt that he should try and enjoy whatever precious time he has left...before the best years of his life are gone...
I could tell he had a lot of friendship to give and he was a good person inside - he just couldn't bring himself to get over his shyness.
After learning my techniques within DAYS he had people inviting him to get-togethers. About a month later he found a nice girlfriend which he recently got engaged to.
Josh - The Mild Mannered IT Guy
Josh had a hard time relating to people.
He spent most of his time alone and rarely had any interaction with co-workers because of his job.
To make it worse, he got a big belly from sitting behind the computer 8 hours day that he really felt insecure about.
I'm not going to lie. Josh worried me the most when testing out my techniques because of all that was against him. I thought, if I was going to fail, it would be with him.
That's why the next week, I was nearly knocked-off my feet with surprise when he told me he was invited to a coworker's summer BBQ. Not only that, but he had no problem having a conversation with them.
Ahmer - Recently Immigrated From Pakistan
Ahmer recently moved here from abroad and didn't have any friends.
He suffered with social anxiety for years before coming here and couldn't get anyone to like him. As with most new comers his insecurity and low self-esteem multiplied now that he is in a foreign country.
In fact, he was naturally more closed off. He thought trying my method will just be a waste of time.
I actually bet him $100 that by the time I'm done teaching him my methods, he will forget that he's in a foreign country, that's how nice people will treat him.
Needless to say, I won that bet!
Vernon - The Socially Awkward Blogger
Vernon came to me through a friend.
He spoke so quietly, you could barely hear him. But, he had a great attitude.
He just needed someone to show him the way.
The first night we went out his confidence skyrocketed. Others paid attention to what he actually said and at the end of the night he exchanged phone numbers with people we met at the bar.
Now his friends know him as the confidence guy, and rely on him to approach and meet people at new social gatherings.
Darren - Just A Student
Darren was young and still in school.
He shouldn't have problems with social anxiety by most people's standards - but he did. He had a lot of internal blocks holding him back. He didn't feel worthy.
There was a little bit of success here and there but he wanted MORE.
He used the opportunity to pick my brain and soak up all the knowledge I had. There were no stones left unturned.
Darren took my methods and literally used it on every single person he met! The next few weeks at school, he instantly had not one, not two but SEVEN different.girls interested in going out with him.
He agrees to every hangout now and barely has time to finish school!
It Worked So Well...
When it worked on all 5 men a realization kicked in that I “Stumbled” onto something very interesting that no one else knew about. So I spent the next several years studying this through psychology and by going out into the real world with Em and the naturally successful guys and experimenting. I was able to eventually develop this into a system and method that gets results every-single time.
Before I get into that…
What's The Technique I Was Going To Teach You Earlier?
Here it is...
You already know not knowing what to talk about can kill your interactions.
Do you think CONVERSATION has a direct connection between popularity and likability? I think it does…
Not Knowing How To Keep Conversations Going Can Creep Others Out
It gets awkward being around that person.
When you become masterful in the art of conversation people are naturally drawn to you and it’s easier to fit in with the groups you want.
Most people go into interactions expecting the other person to say something “Sooo…what’s up?”
And because this person has nothing to add they are considered weird by others.
One of the reasons conversation is important is that from an EVOLUTIONARY standpoint conversation is what allowed our ancestors to get along with each other.
When we don’t have conversations others can’t figure us out, they don’t trust us because they don’t know what we’re about.
What Do You Talk About?
Have you seen how popular mainstream music artists are?
What makes them so popular? What makes them so desirable?
Why do you think there is no hit music video about a guy reading the newspaper? Or watching TV?
The media knows what to COMMUNICATE to people and song writers make sure to incorporate that RIGHT message and deliver it to people in the form of songs and music videos.
They figured out what particularly communicates well with others and gets them in rapport.
It’s NOT accidental.
You can use this knowledge and include it in your conversations to hold people’s attention and have them interested in what you have to say.
Here's a hint...
Music videos show a life people wish they had, away from the mundane.
Away from work, family, responsibilities etc…
It’s something that’s only available during the weekends…the WEEKEND life.
The media knows we seek this escape so they portray it. They show music artists having this life and it ATTRACTS people.
That fun, no-responsibility part of the week.
So…here’s what you do.
Go to YouTube and find music videos with 3Million + hits and see what the topic is about, what the theme is. That’s the theme and topic people are most interested in.
Use those topics in your conversation and INSTANTLY you have something others will pay attention to.
What I Was Persuaded To Do
The more I taught this stuff to my friends the more they pressured me to write a book about it.
You see, while I enjoyed the life of parties, dating attractive women, meeting whom ever I want; other guys were still spinning their wheels, not getting anywhere...
They wanted to know how to do it too...
After getting numerous requests again and again I gave in…
I’ve finally put together what is arguably the most complete educational product on the planet for DRAMATICALLY increasing your success in the social arena into an ebook I named “Secrets To Becoming Socially Savvy & How To Attract 10x More Friends.”
It’s a complete system that if you follow you get better if not the same results as some of the most social people you know.
You’ll go into clubs and parties and IMMEDIATELY draw people’s attention.
What I gave you earlier is a tip of the iceberg. It goes much much deeper that I can’t get into it in this letter…
You'll be at the cutting-edge of social awareness and skills
If you decided you’re ready for SUPER-SUCCESS in this area of your life and want it RIGHT NOW then you might see yourself reading the ebook I’ve written and using the techniques in it.
You already have a piece of the puzzle that I gave to you.
This is your chance to get “behind the scenes” of what it’s like to have the success most people wish they had and live their lives without.
And I’ll tell you everything so you get the whole picture.
Nope. The ONLY thing that matters... is your desire to overcome shyness and social anxiety.
Here's What You're Getting
I've done all the work for you.
I've spent years searching for the right answers, read books, searched online, asked the people I knew.
But I was never satisfied with what was given to me.
The truth is, 99% of advise you get online or from people you know doesn't work.
It wasn't until I met the right people, tested and developed the right techniques, that I figured out how to TRULY make it work.
This isn't like those books written by some stuck up academic who never experienced shyness or social anxiety in his life... and decides to write about it.
Who doesn't even know what it's like.
Every advise and technique I give you has been tested at bars, night clubs, social gatherings, with women, against bullies... in the REAL world and in the most difficult situations.
When I decided to put this solution together in one course I wanted to make sure it's advise unlike anything you've ever seen.
Have a look...
Here's a SMALL list of what you're learning inside this exciting educational program:
You’ll get pages and pages of PRACTICAL real-world techniques that you won’t find anywhere else.
I Guarantee It!
Once you see my simple 3 step formulas and specific directions you'll be able to finally get the results you wanted...
It's that simple.
How much bigger do you want your friends circle to be? Do you want twice as much more friends? 3x more? 5x more? 10x?
It's up to you...
But here's the thing.
I don't like to brag about it...but I've brushed shoulders with hot models, celebrities and musicians...I'll show you...
Personally, I am a humble guy. Having a close group of friends that I can rely on and make memories with - that's what's important.
The simple life.
I like the cozy feeling of spending a weekend together at the beach, enjoying the rays of sunshine with my friends...getting the BBQ started....or even just having a popcorn and movie night.
Going out to party at nights and having fun is just as easy...
Can you imagine the total freedom in following where your heart sets you?
get out of bed every morning excited...
And it will work for you
“But Seriously Chris - How Much Is This Going To Cost Me?”
Before we talk about that, I want you to think about how this will impact your life, the time it will save and the permanent changes you will have.
If you went out on your own to learn this it could take you YEARS like it did for me. Finding a friend like Em will take even longer...
Some go without the answer their entire life...
There's only one other place you can get anything remotely close...and that's a psychiatrist...and they can only help you with overcoming shyness...
If you went to a psychiatrist to learn even half of what I'm teaching you, you'd have to pay THOUSANDS of dollars for their sessions.
Well, I don't know about you, but if someone offered me all the answers to overcoming social anxiety and live the lifestyle for $1000, I'd be climbing over people to get it...
But thankfully, I'm not asking you for anything close to $1000...
In fact, not even close...
If you could avoid social humiliation/rejection, have amazing conversation and have 10x more friends, and it means having these skills for the rest of your life, would you grab the opportunity for just $77...
However, because you can't find this information anywhere else without going to a therapist first I may raise the price after the next couple of buyers.
I've received emails from people who don't even have shyness that are grabbing my program and telling me how great it is.
I don't know if these guys are regular folks or if they could be bullies to get an edge for themselves. Who knows what they're doing with my work...
In part I'll raise the price to keep up with the real value of the information provided, and to discourage people who don't need it from getting it.
$77 $37 is a special price right now...
So, if you really want it I would recommend getting it now before the offer is gone.
It hasn't hit mainstream just yet so I'm not too worried. But I honestly haven't decided yet.
If you still think this is too good to be true, it is not. This is the real deal.
So, you need to act now... or miss out for good.
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Think about this - $37 is a painless amount if you consider the life changing system you're getting.
Listen, to get information this good, you'd usually have to get personal coaching...how much would you be paying for that? $100? $500? $1,000?
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If you're looking to get real results, your search is over...
Do you want 10x more friends, more people paying attention to you in a way where they want to be around you, more number of people asking you to hangout than you know what to do with?
Do you want to continue feeling nervous at social events, have others ignore you when you’re trying to fit-in, or worse, sit at home during weekends thinking of the events you weren’t invited but other people are going to?
The choice is yours.
But it’s up to you do take the next step.
I wish you the best of luck.
Your best friend,
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