“How To Avoid Social
Anxiety/Shyness, Have Amazing Conversation, And Make 10x More
You Want The
Steps To Having Conversations That Make Women Call You Back To Hang
Out, Have 10x More Friends In Your Social Circle, Consistently Get
Invited To Parties, Get-Togethers And Other Social Events Then This
Will Be The Most Important Letter You Ever Read…
Dear Friend Who Wants Social Success And More
Have you ever had this happen to YOU?
- Have you ever had a good conversation with people you
thought were friends and when you walked away you can hear them
snickering and laughing at you?
- Do you become self-conscious and stilted at social
gatherings because other people ignore you?
- Have you ever been in a situation where there’s a
you like and some guy deliberately embarrasses you. And you see that
look come over her eyes that makes you realize she probably sees you as
- Do you find that your friends conveniently aren’t
when you need them the most?
- Do you feel like others have all the power and choice
when it comes to social situations like making friends and going out
with others…and you have little or none?
- Do you wish you knew how to stop jerks in their
whenever they have fun at your expense?
- Do you hate the idea of admitting to others that you
insecure about this area of your life, and you really wish you could do
- Do you get really freaked out when others become
dramatic at you…and not know what to do?
- Would you Really like to have exceptional friends…who
don’t use others…and who are there when you need them?
- Have you ever felt like NOTHING you ever do will
your situation and you should just accept it?
- Would you like to have really outgoing, fun friends
are social and outgoing, but have no idea how to connect with them?
- Or do you already have success in this area to some
extent, but you’d like to take it to the next level RIGHT NOW and start
having more consistent results?
If you answered “YES!”
any of these questions, then I
some important news for
You’re NOT alone. In
that list of questions came from my own
personal experince and from learning about this area of
my life for myself.
Line Is This…
NOT having friends and
feeling uncomfortable in social environments sucks!
It makes you feel out-of-place, left out and lonely.
It leaves you feeling
you have no power in your life.
It takes over your
thoughts where you can’t focus on your job or other areas of your life.
It overpowers everything else…
On the other hand…
KNOWING how to fit in,
make friends effortlessly and handle bullies feels AMAZING.
It feels good going
social setting, walk right up to the people who invited you and start a
conversation where everyone likes you.
It feels good knowing
to be the guy who gets invited everywhere, where people have to
PERSUADE you to lose sleep and come hang out with them.
It just feels good knowing
to make friends.
Most Shy Guys Never Figure Out What It Takes To
Socially Savvy. They Try The Same Things Over And Over Again…And Fail
In a moment I'm going to
give you a technique so you can overcome that.
But before I do that...
Who am I? And what do
I have anything to
do with anxiety, shyness and social issues? Let me tell you a
short story about who I am and my life when I was shy, introverted and the
guy who was always left out.
When I was growing up my father kept
tight leash around me to keep any outsiders from influencing me.
What that means is I wasn’t allowed
have friends because they’re “ALL BAD INFLUENCE”
I went to school, came
home, got math tutored and next day went back to school.
My mother picked out
clothes and made sure it DIDN’T fit in with the mainstream
crowd…because if it did in her words I’d become ‘corrupt’.
Her idea of style is
people wore back in her days.
When I argued …I was
tripped and she literally said:
“I’m Using My Hard
Money To Buy You This, You Should Appreciate It.”
As you have guessed we
were also very poor.
Lack Of Confidence"
I managed one or two
and mostly talked to them over the internet.
In Fact! People hated
me in school because I was "odd" and "different".
I hated them for
labeling me that…But
deep inside I wanted to be accepted.
And then something
I met this girl…
She was HOT.
She was the type who
the attention, guys chasing her, always out…
Me I basically had no
friends, no weekend life, none of that stuff.
We went on a date and
for the most part it went pretty well.
We sat down and I
thought about when I’d see her next and suggested “Hey next time we can
go to Symposium Café ”
She looked at me
square in the eye and said “There won’t be a next time.”
I went home and
thought back on my life. From the people I knew, to the routines that I
was living to where I’d be ten years from now.
I was sad, pissed-off,
That was the tipping
point for me…
This Is Not Where I
Wana Be In My Life
I decided I’d do
ANYTHING to get out.
How much lower can I
go than this? I lost my inhibition, thought of nothing else. Pretty
much bootstrapped and tried making friends, getting to know more
people, I tried getting invited to events, I tried standing up to
No matter how hard I
tried I FAILED over and
I just went home at
night, recuperated, and went on about it next day.
By Chance I Came
Sometime after I came
across a guy nicknamed Em. I’ve never ran into anyone with an air of
POWER, CONFIDENCE and SOCIAL PERSOANLITY that he had.
He had women CHASING
him all over the place and people from years ago still calling him
And I have a feeling
he somehow knew I had trouble fitting in.
The gist of it is he
invited me to hang out with his group and we became good friends and he
helped me with some of my social challenges.
It started to
make sense for me.
Over time I found
several other guys like Em who I consider some of the BEST IN THE
WORLD, (It was NOT easy with these guys and it took YEARS finding them)
and hung out with them.
The Discovery That
Changed My Life
And I came to a
“It doesn’t matter how
hard you try…you can’t learn how to become socially savvy if you’re on
the receiving end of social disapproval.”
Unless you’re INVITED
in by those groups you’re never going to figure out how to be
successful like them…the puzzle pieces are never going to fit together.
I retraced my steps of
how I was before, and how I am now.
Found what I was doing
DIFFERENT started doing JUST THAT.
the things I did before.
It Worked Like Magic
What happened next
blew me away. People IMMEDIATELY started responding to me how they
would with Em and those other guys.
I didn’t believe what
They told me I had a
certain “Power and Authority” about me.
I consciously knew
what I was doing right this time…so I applied it with completely
different groups again and again.
And that’s when I
started getting consistent results.
Seeing the TREMENDOUS
leap from being the guy just part of the group to the guy who suddenly
became popular I wanted to see if I can teach others to do the same.
How It Worked For
I decided to take one
or two techniques and teach it to others.
I wanted to see if it
would do anything for them.
And it did! They were
getting the same results I was.
The realization kicked
in that I “Stumbled” onto something very interesting that no one else
knew about. So I spent the next several years studying this through psychology
and by going out into the real world with these guys and experimenting.
I was able to eventually develop this into a system and method
Before I get into that…
What's The Technique
I Was Going To Teach You Earlier?
Here it is...
You already know
not knowing what to talk about can kill your interactions.
Do you think
CONVERSATION has a direct connection between popularity and likability?
I think it does…
Not Knowing How To
Keep Conversations Going Can Creep Others Out.
It gets awkward being
around that person.
When you become
masterful in the art of conversation people are naturally drawn to you
and it’s easier to fit in with the groups you want.
Most people go into
interactions expecting the other person to say something “Sooo…what’s
And because this
person has nothing to add they are considered weird by others.
One of the reasons
conversation is important is that from an EVOLUTIONARY standpoint
conversation is what allowed our ancestors to get along with each
When we don’t have
conversations others can’t figure us out, they don’t trust us because
they don’t know what we’re about.
What Do You Talk
Have you seen how
popular mainstream music artists are?
What makes them so
popular? What makes them so desirable?
Why do you think there
is no hit music video about a guy reading the newspaper? Or
The media knows what
to COMMUNICATE to people and song writers make sure to incorporate that
RIGHT message and deliver it to people in the form of songs and music
They figured out what
particularly communicates well with others and gets them in rapport.
It’s NOT accidental.
You can use this
knowledge and include it in your conversations to hold people’s
attention and have them interested in what you have to say.
Here's a hint...
Music videos show a
life people wish they had, away from the mundane.
Away from work,
family, responsibilities etc…
It’s something that’s
only available during the weekends…the WEEKEND life.
The media knows we
seek this escape so they portray it. They show music artists having
this life and it ATTRACTS people.
no-responsibility part of the week.
So…here’s what you do.
Go to YouTube and find
music videos with 3Million + hits and see what the topic is about, what
the theme is. That’s the theme and topic people
are most interested in.
Use those topics in
your conversation and INSTANTLY you have
something others will pay
What I got pressured
The more I taught this
to my friends the more I got
pressured to write it down into a book for them.
After getting asked again and again I finally agreed…
I’ve finally put
together what is arguably the most complete educational product on the
planet for DRAMATICALLY increasing your success in the social arena
into an ebook I named “Secrets To Becoming Socially Savvy & How
To Attract 10x More Friends.”
Before it was
available exclusively to my friends but now I've made it available to
you by putting it online.
It’s a complete system
that if you follow you get better if
not the same results as some of the most social people you
into clubs and parties and IMMEDIATELY draw people’s attention.
What I gave you
earlier is a tip of the iceberg. It goes much much deeper that
I can’t get into it in this
You'll be at the cutting-edge of
decided you’re ready for SUPER-SUCCESS in this area of your
it RIGHT NOW then you might see yourself getting the ebook
I’ve written and using the techniques in it.
You already have a
piece of the puzzle that I gave to you.
This is your chance to
get “behind the scenes” of what it’s like to have the success most
people wish they had and live their lives without.
And I’ll tell you
everything so you get the whole picture.
Here's a SMALL list of
what you're learning inside this exciting educational program:
- What women secretly like
about men but will NEVER tell you Pg.35
- The ONE mistake
men do with EVERY hang out that makes it boring Pg.70
- What bullies
DON’T expect from you, and makes them think twice before approaching
you again Pg.80
- FIVE simple
words that gets people to WANT to hang out with you. Pg.67
- The ONE mindset
that changes you to an OUTGOING personality. Pg.46
- An overlooked style of
communication where people get
GLUED to your conversation. Pg.57
- Why most people
would rather you DIDN’T have social success. Pg.51
- When being a
Jerk just enough
gets people interested in you Pg.34
- SIX UNIVERSAL
traits disrespected in western society and how you can avoid it Pg.51
- Why being funny
works against you IF you don’t know this one key element Pg.60
- When satisfying
the LEAST amount of people makes you the most desirable Pg.43
- What you learned
as a kid that’s currently DESTROYING your adult social life Pg.48
3-Step-Formula for increasing CONFIDENCE, generate CHARISMA and give
you AUTHORITY so others take you seriously.
- The REAL reason
why most shy men will never have REAL success in social
how to SMASH THROUGH and permanently
eliminate that obstacle Pg.25
- The UNDER THE
of group behavior that no one knows but everybody does and you can tap
into that for tremendous social success Pg.11
- A check list of
things to do when dealing with others that IMMEDIATELY sets you apart
in a way that makes you look “Cool”. Pg.51
- A quick, easy
way to “Turn The Tables” when you are confronted with an asshole/bully
- NEWSFLASH: Why
EVERYBODY judges a “Book By Its Cover” and where your first
impression with others are going wrong Pg.22
- 4 Styles of
conversation 3 of which kill your chances of ANY success. Pg.54
- Foolproof method
of avoiding REJECTION when meeting people Pg.74
- How to use your
unique traits and feature it in a way that makes others see you as
“Cool” and WANT to be around you Pg.26
- Why people Jude negatively
about you before you even open your mouth to speak Pg.24
- How to never
publicly get humiliated and how to come out on top if it happens Pg.79
- When you finally
get the SUCCESS you set out for this is what you need to do to never
lose it again Pg.83
You’ll get pages and
pages of PRACTICAL real-world techniques that you won’t find anywhere
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one final thought I have to share with you.
studying psychology for many years I've come to realize one thing: That
if you don't make the
decision to get this part of your life handled right now,
there's a very very small chance you're ever going to do it in the
future. It's just the way it is.
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