How To Avoid Social Anxiety/Shyness, Have Amazing Conversation, And Make 10x More Friends

If You Want The Exact Steps To Having Conversations That Make Women Call You Back To Hang Out, Have 10x More Friends In Your Social Circle, Consistently Get Invited To Parties, Get-Togethers And Other Social Events Then This Will Be The Most Important Letter You Ever Read…

Dear Friend Who Wants Social Success And More Friends,

    Have you ever had this happen to YOU?

  • Are you depressed and feel you might never get to do what you wanted (get the girlfriend you wanted, go out on nights, having fun etc)...
  • Do you get the bummed out as life seems to pass you by?
  • Do you simply live and hope for the better, even if sometimes the loneliness is so bad it physically hurts?
  • Do you feel trapped because you can't talk to anyone beyond your surface problems...and it makes you feel constantly isolated?
  • Do you spend weekends alone and don't have anything to do?
  • Everytime you try to do something to improve your life everything goes wrong, really wrong?
  • Have you ever been in a situation where there’s a girl you like and some guy deliberately embarrasses you. And you see that look come over her eyes that makes you realize she probably sees you as a loser?
  • Do you know of people who you are more annoyed with your existence than pleased?
  • Are you tired of getting useless advice like "practice gratitude" and have it get you nowhere?
  • Do you feel like others have all the power and choice when it comes to social situations like making friends and going out with others…and you have little or none?
  • Do you wish you knew how to stop jerks in their tracks if they have fun at your expense?
  • Do you hate the idea of admitting to others that you feel insecure about this area of your life, and you really wish you could do it yourself?
  • Do you get really freaked out when others become upset or dramatic at you…and not know what to do?
  • Would you Really like to have exceptional fun friends…who don’t use others…and who are there when you need them?
  • Have you ever felt like NOTHING you ever do will change your situation and you should just accept it?
  • Would you like to have outgoing friends who are social but have no idea how to connect with them?
  • Or do you already have success in this area to some extent, but you’d like to take it to the next level RIGHT NOW and start having more consistent results?

If you answered “YES!” to any of these questions, then I have some important news for you…

You’re NOT alone. In fact, that list of questions came from my own personal experience and from learning about this area of my life for myself.

The Bottom Line Is This…

NOT having friends and feeling uncomfortable in social environments sucks!

It makes you feel out-of-place, left out and lonely.

It leaves you feeling like you have no power in your life.

It takes over your thoughts where you can’t focus on your job or other areas of your life. It overpowers everything else…

On the other hand…

KNOWING how to fit in, make friends effortlessly and handle bullies feels AMAZING.

It feels good going into a social setting, walk right up to the people who invited you and start a conversation where everyone likes you.

It feels good knowing how to be the guy who gets invited everywhere, where people have to PERSUADE you to lose sleep and come hang out with them.

It just feels good knowing how to make friends.

Most Shy Guys Never Figure Out What It Takes To Become Socially Savvy. They Try The Same Things Over And Over Again…And Fail

In a moment I'm going to give you a technique so you can overcome that.

But before I do that...

Who am I? And what do I have anything to do with anxiety, shyness and social issues? Let me tell you a short story about who I am and my life when I was shyintroverted and the guy who was always left out.

When I was growing up my father kept a tight leash around me to keep any outsiders from influencing me.

What that means is I wasn’t allowed to have friends because they’re “ALL BAD INFLUENCE”

I went to school, came home, got math tutored and next day went back to school.

"I Had No Friends"

My mother picked out my clothes and made sure it DIDN’T fit in with the mainstream crowd…because if it did in her words I’d become ‘corrupt’.

Her idea of style is what people wore back in her days.

When I argued …I was guilt tripped and she literally said:

“I’m Using My Hard Earned Money To Buy You This, You Should Appreciate It.”

As you have guessed this was a disaster in my social life when combined with shyness and social anxiety.

Fast Forward To Today...

I can now meet and hang out with new people everyday.

Dating attractive women is no longer a challenge... in fact I have to frequently say "no" to women because they're interested in me when I'm currently in a relationship. But when I'm single I can date as many women as I want...

People now come to me for ideas on what to do when planning parties and social events. In fact, often times they'll cancel an event if I can't make it and they plan it based on my schedule!

How exactly did I change?

You see, I got to a point in my shy and awkward life when I finally decided enough is enough...

This Is Not Where I Wana Be In My Life

I decided I’d do ANYTHING to get out.

I lost my inhibition, thought of nothing else. Pretty much bootstrapped and tried making friends, getting to know more people, I tried getting invited to events, I tried standing up to bullies.

But no matter how hard I tried I FAILED over and over again.

By Chance I Came Across...

Sometime after I came across a guy nicknamed Em. I’ve never ran into anyone with an air of POWER, CONFIDENCE and SOCIAL PERSOANLITY that he had.

He had women CHASING him all over the place and people from years ago still calling him back...he wasn't that good looking or have lots of money or anything special.

And I have a feeling he somehow knew I had trouble fitting in.

The gist of it is he invited me to hang out with his group and we became good friends and he helped me with some of my social challenges.

It started to make sense for me.

Over time I found several other guys like Em who I consider some of the BEST IN THE WORLD, (It was NOT easy with these guys and it took a ong time finding them) and hung out with them.

I Started To See What I Was Doing Wrong All My Life

I saw what I was doing wrong.

What others really thought of introverted men.

I was getting more and more comfortable in social environments.

The Discovery That Changed My Life

And I came to a realization…

“It doesn’t matter how hard you try…you can’t learn how to become socially savvy if you’re on the receiving end of social disapproval.”

Unless you’re INVITED in by those groups you’re never going to figure out how to be successful like them…the puzzle pieces are never going to fit together.

There are key things you would naturally start doing once accepted by these "groups" that sets you apart from the rest.

I retraced my steps of how I was before, and how I am now.

Found what I was doing DIFFERENT started doing JUST THAT.

Completely eliminating the things I did before.

Like Magic

What happened next blew me away. People IMMEDIATELY started responding to me how they would with Em and those other guys.

I didn’t believe what was happening.

They told me I had a certain “Power and Authority” about me.

I consciously knew what I was doing right this time…so I applied it with completely different groups again and again.

And that’s when I started getting consistent results.

Seeing the TREMENDOUS leap from being the guy just part of the group to the guy who suddenly became popular I wanted to see if I can teach others to do the same.

How It Worked For Others

I decided to take one or two techniques and teach it to others.

I wanted to see if it would do anything for them.

And it did! They were getting the same results I was.

The realization kicked in that I “Stumbled” onto something very interesting that no one else knew about. So I spent the next several years studying this through psychology and by going out into the real world with Em and the naturally successful guys and experimenting. I was able to develop this into a system and method that gets results every-single time.

The guys I taught my technique to...NONE of these guys had movie star good looks, big bank account or fame.

In fact, some were in their 40's, some were overweight, some were balding, and some were barely out of school!

And almost ALL of them believed it was impossible for them to get the kind of success I talked about.

But after walking them through my discovery, and showing them how to do it, their concept of what was possible was SHATTERED!

These Guys Couldn't Be Any Different From Each Other...

When I decided to test if my discovery worked on others, I wanted a group of guys from different walks of life, just to PROVE to the disbelievers you don't need anything special to permanently end their shyness and social anxiety.

There was...

Mitchel - The Middle Aged Workaholic

He was already starting to get grey hair and showing signs of aging.

Mitchel was tired of the life he was living, he felt that he should try and enjoy whatever precious time he has left...before the best years of his life are gone...

I could tell he had a lot of friendship to give and he was a good person inside - he just couldn't bring himself to get over his shyness.

After learning my techniques within DAYS he had people inviting him to get-togethers. About a month later he found a nice girlfriend which he recently got engaged to.

Josh - The Mild Mannered IT Guy

Josh had a hard time relating to people.

He spent most of his time alone and rarely had any interaction with co-workers because of his job.

To make it worse, he got a big belly from sitting behind the computer 8 hours day that he really felt insecure about.

I'm not going to lie. Josh worried me the most when testing out my techniques because of all that was against him. I thought, if I was going to fail, it would be with him.

That's why the next week, I was nearly knocked-off my feet with surprise when he told me he was invited to a coworker's summer BBQ. Not only that, but he had no problem getting along with everyone at the event.

Ahmer - Recently Immigrated From India

Ahmer recently moved here from abroad and didn't have any friends.

He suffered with social anxiety for years before coming here and couldn't get anyone to like him. As with most new comers his insecurity and low self-esteem multiplied now that he is in a foreign country.

In fact, he was naturally more closed off. He thought trying my method will just be a waste of time.

I actually made a bet that by the time I'm done teaching him my techniques, he will forget that he's a foreigner, that's how friendly people will be with him.

Needless to say, I won that bet!

Vernon - The Socially Awkward Blogger

Vernon came to me through a friend.

He spoke so quietly, you could barely hear him. But, he had a great attitude. 

He just needed someone to show him the way.

The first night we went out his confidence skyrocketed. Others paid attention to what he actually said and at the end of the night he exchanged phone numbers with people we met at the bar.

Now his friends know him as the confidence guy, and rely on him to approach and meet people at new social gatherings.

Darren - Just A Student

Darren was young and still in school.

He shouldn't have problems with social anxiety by most people's standards - but he did. He had a lot of internal blocks holding him back. He didn't feel worthy.

There was a little bit of success here and there but he wanted MORE.

He used the opportunity to pick my brain and soak up all the knowledge I had. There were no stones left unturned.

Darren took my methods and literally used it on every single person he met! The next few weeks at school, he instantly had not one, not two but SEVEN different.girls interested in going out with him.

He agrees to every hangout now and barely has time to finish school!

It Worked So Well...

...I had to come up with more new and improved techniques that work in every situation you can think of...

Before I get into that…

What's That Technique I Was Going To Teach You Earlier?

Here it is...

You already know not knowing what to talk about can kill your interactions.


Do you think CONVERSATION has a direct connection between popularity and likability? I think it does…

Not Knowing How To Keep Conversations Going Can Creep Others Out

It gets awkward being around that person.

When you become masterful in the art of conversation people are naturally drawn to you and it’s easier to fit in with the groups you want.

Most people go into interactions expecting the other person to say something “Sooo…what’s up?”

And because this person has nothing to add they are considered weird by others.

One of the reasons conversation is important is that from an EVOLUTIONARY standpoint conversation is what allowed our ancestors to get along with each other.

When we don’t have conversations others can’t figure us out, they don’t trust us because they don’t know what we’re about.

What Is The Exact Conversation You're Supposed To Have?

Have you seen how popular mainstream music artists are?

What makes them so popular? What makes them so desirable?

Why do you think there is no hit music video about a guy reading the newspaper? Or watching TV?



The media knows what to COMMUNICATE to people and song writers make sure to incorporate that RIGHT message and deliver it to people in the form of songs and music videos.

They figured out what particularly communicates well with others and gets them in rapport.

It’s NOT accidental.

You can use this knowledge and include it in your conversations to hold people’s attention and have them interested in what you have to say.

Here's a hint...

Music videos show a life people wish they had, away from the mundane.

Away from work, family, responsibilities etc…

It’s something that’s only available during the weekends…the WEEKEND life.

The media knows we seek this escape so they portray it. They show music artists having this life and it ATTRACTS people.

That fun, no-responsibility part of the week.

So…here’s what you do.

Go to YouTube and find music videos with 3Million + hits and see what the topic is about, what the theme is. That’s the theme and topic people are most interested in.

Use those topics in your conversation and INSTANTLY you have something others will naturally pay attention to.

Try it

What I Was Persuaded To Do

The more I taught this kind of stuff to my friends the more they pressured me to to put these revolutionary, simple, easy-to-follow instructions into writing for them.

You see, while I enjoyed the life of partying, dating, meeting whom ever I want; other guys were still spinning their wheels, not getting anywhere...

They wanted more for themselves too...

After getting numerous requests again and again I gave in…

I’ve finally put together what is arguably the most complete educational product on the planet for DRAMATICALLY increasing your success in the social arena into an ebook I named “Secrets To Becoming Socially Savvy & How To Attract 10x More Friends.”

It’s a complete system that if you follow you get better if not the same results as some of the most social people you know.

You’ll go into clubs and parties and IMMEDIATELY draw people’s attention.

What I gave you earlier is a tip of the iceberg. It goes much much deeper that I can’t get into it in this letter…

You'll be at the cutting-edge of social awareness and skills

If you decided you’re ready for SUPER-SUCCESS in this area of your life and want it RIGHT NOW then you might see yourself reading the ebook I’ve written and using the techniques in it.

You already have a piece of the puzzle that I gave to you.

This is your chance to get “behind the scenes” of what it’s like to have the success most people wish they had and live their lives without.

And I’ll tell you everything so you get the whole picture.

What's more... 

  • It doesn't matter if you never had success in this area...
  • It doesn't matter if you've tried but failed over and over again...
  • It doesn't matter what your beliefs are about the current situation you're in...
  • And... it doesn't matter if you still think I'm lying to you about how easy this is.

Nope. The ONLY thing that matters... is your desire to overcome shyness and social anxiety.

Here's What You're Getting

I've done all the work for you.

I've spent years searching for the right answers, read books, searched online, asked the people I knew.

But I was never satisfied with what was given to me.

The truth is, 99% of advise you get online or from people you know doesn't work.

It wasn't until I met the right people, tested and developed the right techniques, that I figured out how to TRULY make it work. 

This isn't like those books written by some academic who never experienced shyness out in the real world... and decides to write about it.

Who doesn't even know what it's like.

Every advise and technique I give you has been tested at bars, night clubs, social settings, with women, against bullies... in the REAL world and in the most difficult situations.

When I decided to put this solution together in one course I wanted to make sure it's advise unlike anything you've ever seen.

Have a look...

Here's a SMALL list of what you're learning inside this exciting educational program:

  • What women secretly like about men but will NEVER tell you Pg.35
  • The ONE mistake men do with EVERY hang out that makes it boring Pg.70
  • What bullies DON’T expect from you, and makes them think twice before approaching you again Pg.80
  • FIVE simple words that gets people to WANT to hang out with you. Pg.67
  • The ONE mindset that changes you to an OUTGOING personality. Pg.46
  • An overlooked style of communication where people get GLUED to your conversation. Pg.57
  • Why most people would rather you DIDN’T have social success. Pg.51
  • When being a Jerk just enough gets people interested in you Pg.34
  • SIX UNIVERSAL traits disrespected in western society and how you can avoid it Pg.51
  • Why being funny works against you IF you don’t know this one key element Pg.60
  • When satisfying the LEAST amount of people makes you the most desirable Pg.43
  • What you learned as a kid that’s currently DESTROYING your adult social life Pg.48
  • Simple 3-Step-Formula for increasing CONFIDENCE, generate CHARISMA and give you AUTHORITY so others take you seriously. Pg.41
  • The REAL reason why most shy men will never have REAL success in social environments…and how to SMASH THROUGH and permanently eliminate that obstacle Pg.25
  • The UNDER THE RADAR PSYCHOLOGY of group behavior that no one knows but everybody does and you can tap into that for tremendous social success Pg.11
  • A check list of things to do when dealing with others that IMMEDIATELY sets you apart in a way that makes you look “Cool”. Pg.51
  • A quick, easy way to “Turn The Tables” when you are confronted with an asshole/bully Pg.81
  • NEWSFLASH: Why EVERYBODY judges a “Book By Its Cover” and where your first impression with others are going wrong Pg.22
  • 4 Styles of conversation 3 of which kill your chances of ANY success. Pg.54
  • Foolproof method of avoiding REJECTION when meeting people Pg.74
  • How to use your unique traits and feature it in a way that makes others see you as “Cool” and WANT to be around you Pg.26
  • Why people Jude negatively about you before you even open your mouth to speak Pg.24
  • How to never publicly get humiliated and how to come out on top if it happens Pg.79
  • When you finally get the SUCCESS you set out for this is what you need to do to never lose it again Pg.83

You’ll get pages and pages of PRACTICAL real-world techniques that you won’t find anywhere else.

I Guarantee It!

Once you see my simple 3 step formulas and specific directions you'll be able to finally get the results you wanted...

It's that simple.

How much bigger do you want your social circle to be? Do you want twice as much more friends? 3x more? 5x more? 10x?

It's up to you...

But here's the thing.

I don't like to brag about it...but I've brushed shoulders with hot models, celebrities and musicians...I'll show you...


Personally, I am a humble guy. Having a close group of friends that I can rely on and make memories with - that's what's important.

The simple life.

I like the cozy feeling of spending a weekend together at the beach, enjoying the rays of sunshine with my friends...getting the BBQ started....or even just having a popcorn and movie night.


Going out to party at nights and having fun is just as easy...

Can you imagine the total freedom in following where your heart sets you?

Picture it:

You get out of bed every morning excited...

Drink a cup of coffee, text your friends and make plans for the day...

Then you hit the shower, maybe you're going to the movies, parties...

You decide what you want to do with your friends... and it's always going to be fun.

And no more crushing shyness and anxiety. No spending weekends alone, no more missed opportunities, none of that stuff that would drive you crazy.

Your life is yours now... so maybe you like concerts like me... maybe you like to travel... or throw hangouts... just whatever you want.

Heck, maybe you want to aim for the stars and spend time with famous celebrities like I did...

Well that's the chance I'm giving you here... this is not just some hocus pocus.

Secrets To Becoming Socially Savvy gives you the keys to the kind of life you've dreamed of.

And it will work for you

But Seriously Chris - How Much Is This Going To Cost Me?

Before we talk about that, I want you to think about how this will impact your life, the time it will save and the permanent changes you will have.

If you went out on your own to learn this it could take you YEARS like it did for me. Finding a friend like Em will take even longer...

...Maybe never...?

Some go without the answer their entire life...

There's only one other place you can get anything remotely close...and that's a psychiatrist...and they can only help you with overcoming shyness...

If you went to a psychiatrist to learn even half of what I'm teaching you, you'd have to pay THOUSANDS of dollars for their sessions. 

Well, I don't know about you, but if someone offered me all the answers to overcoming social anxiety and live the lifestyle for $1000, I'd be climbing over people to get it...

But thankfully, I'm not asking you for anything close to $1000...

In fact, not even close...

If you could avoid social humiliation/rejection, have amazing conversation and have 10x more friends would you give me $1.21 a day for 30 days if it means having these skills for the rest of your life?

Would that be fair?

How about...


Order now and you get a 60 day money back guarantee if you decide to change your mind. You have nothing to lose!

I'm completely confident that my system is the exact thing you need to finally get over your shyness and live the life you've always wanted.

In fact, I'm so confident, that I'm prepared to let you try it risk free for an entire 60 days...

You see, this way I don't have to worry if you're unhappy in any way possible, because you can get an easy refund within 60 days....

So you are free to download the whole thing, try it out, and see what happens to you.

And if your life doesn't change, you don't see massive progress, or just plain old don't like the system, no problem at all...

I'll refund every single penny to you. No hard feelings.

But that's not all...I'll take it even further to make sure you're protected...

You see, a lot of people would ask you to prove you tried the system if they were in my shoes, before they would give the money back.

But not me. I don't care if you haven't even opened the book. You want your money back, you got it.

And that's set in stone.

Now I'm sure you've bought books before, and you don't need me to tell you just how rare this guarantee is...

I just wanted to make it clear to you that this is a completely no-risk purchase.

So act now - take advantage of me and get my system for this ridiculous price...with absolutely zero risk!

Chris I've seen enough, let me in right now!

However, because you can't find this information anywhere else without going to a therapist first I may raise the price after the next couple of buyers.

I've received emails from people who don't even have shyness that are grabbing my program and telling me how great it is.

I don't know if these guys are regular folks or if they could be bullies to get an advantage for themselves. Who knows what they're doing with my work...

In part, I'll raise the price to keep up with the real value of the information, and to discourage people who don't need it from getting it. 

This is a special price right now...

So, if you really want it I would recommend getting it now before the offer is gone. 

It hasn't hit mainstream yet so I'm not too worried. But I honestly haven't decided yet.

If you still think this is too good to be true, it is not. This is the real deal.

So, you need to act now... or miss out for good.

There's More...

Go ahead and try Surf Social Waves right now, not only do you get the entire system, but you also get these three extra reports...

They costs $10-$15 each...but you'll get it completely FREE...

This is where I reveal some of the latest tips that you can use within minutes...

"3 Tips That Instantly Fix Conversations" These instant conversation techniques will improve your communication with others and you don't even have to spend 10 minutes learning it.

I'll teach you:
  • The easy to fix trait that signals people to keep their distance form shy or socially anxious'll wonder why you never thought of it first
  • The shocking truth why people might judge you to not have "trustworthy" personality...once you know it you'll never do it again...
  • What to do when trying to make new friends that puts them at ease
"Here's The Exact Reason Why Nice Guys Finish Last And How To Become The Exception". You finally learn why nice guys don't always come out on top in social situations. Whether it's dating, friendship, or work... The answers are finally solved here...
You'll learn:
  • How to detect the types of people who want to use you and "train" them never to do it again
  • How to never miss the critical part of a conversation when people respect you - if you miss this moment they will begin to walk all over you
  • Why it's so hard to change the way people treat you unless you say this one word to them
  • When being nice to women in these situations puts you in the "friend zone"..

In the third booklet "How To Use Social Media To Grow Your Social Circle" you learn subtle tricks to improving social media profiles and posts that create amazing first impressions.



You'll learn:

  • The secret One Minute profile photo technique that get people to like and comment on it over and over again...
  • Here's what NOT to do when posting status updates so that others don't find you boring...
  • How to appear more interesting and approachable just by using your profile.

Think about this - this price is a steal if you consider the life changing system you're getting.

Listen, to get information this good, you'd usually have to get personal much would you be paying for that? $100? $500? $1,000?

But I'm handing you the exact steps and specific directions to make you successful. It's like having a coach, but way less expensive, and a better decision too...

But you have to act now to get it. Order below and secure your spot...

If you're looking to get real results, your search is over...

YES! I'm Ready To Start
My RISK FREE 60 Day Trial

Chris, I'm ready to finally change my life for the better.

I understand that:

  • This system has the power to turn my life around...
  • I will receive instant access to the Secrets To Becoming Socially Savvy system for a very low discounted price...
  • If for any reason within 60 days I didn't feel it was worth it you'll give me my money back.

One-time payment of $37

Download My Free Trial Now!

Click the add to cart button

Download my ebook which you’ll be reading in 5minutes, you’re going to read in that book 15min a day for the next 20 days and at the end of 20 days you will have a minimum 10x more friends, bullies are going to be avoiding YOU not the other way around and you’ll be at more parties, more get-togethers and more social events where people always look forward for you to arrive.

Do you want 10x more friends, more people paying attention to you in a way where they want to be around you, more number of people asking you to hangout than you know what to do with?


Do you want to continue feeling nervous at social events, have others ignore you when you’re trying to fit-in, or worse, sit at home during weekends thinking of the events you weren’t invited but other people are going to? 

The choice is yours. 

But it’s up to you do take the next step.

I wish you the best of luck.

Your friend,


Chris Chandra


"Secrets To Becoming Socially Savvy & How To Attract 10x More Friends" takes you behind the scenes deep into the minds of other people. You get real world science & psychology that allows you to trigger emotional responses in people that draws them to you. When you are finished reading this book you'll have the kind of success where the only way others will explain it is crediting it to "luck" or they will think "life just dealt favorable cards to you" and only you will know the secret.

Download it now AT MY RISK and read it. You'll get immediate results. If you aren't 100% satisfied for ANY REASON AT ALL, you can send me an email and ask for a refund, KEEP THE BOOK, and pay nothing.

Click here if you want to email me and I'll respond to you on your request.

Contact | Affiliates | Privacy
Copyright © SurfSocialWaves All Rights Reserved  The names used in the promotion of this product have been changed for privacy reasons. Results may vary.